Today we are going to talk about arguing – The question we want to actually address is “How do we wrestle through the realities of different opinions, ideas, values, preferences and desires while maintaining our connection, demonstrating love and honor, and being fully ourselves.” Another way to re-phrase this question is “How do we create an environment that makes room for both spouses to be heard and understood – even in the midst of dis-agreement?”
Steve and Lorraine give three keys to navigating differences, conflict, and those really hard conversations. They unpack The RAC – the most helpful and powerful tool for nurturing connection while communicating even and maybe especially in the midst of dis-agreement and conflict.
The foundation upon which the practical use of communication tools rests is the Holy Spirit. He wants to be with us in a very real way as the Guide, the Teacher, the Helper, the Counselor, and the Comforter.